Be encouraged. Be inspired. Be seen.


Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • handkerchief pattern

    Let’s talk about the best pair of patterned leggings that have crossed my path lately! They’re from Forever 21 of course & they are handkerchief patterned! The best! I saw them & had to have them because… 1. They’re leggings & I live in those things. 2. They’re black & white & that is my…

  • poi: white tees

    Let’s talk about my last outfit for my Pinterest outfit challenge! I am so glad to be done with this weeklong experience of wearing outfits that I found on Pinterest. There definitely was some difficulty behind it. I felt like I was wearing costumes all week! Silly, I know. But it’s true! I can handle…

  • poi: sweatshirt glam

    Let’s talk about sweatshirts & how they can be glamorous. I remember back in high school when I played softball we would have to wear sweats on game days. All the girls on my team would say I looked fashionable even in a sweatshirt & sweatpants & they always wondered how I did it. Well,…

  • poi: beyoncé

    Let’s talk about the queen of music, Beyoncé. Yesterday for my Pinterest outfit challenge I dressed just like her! I found a pic of her when I searched for leather leggings & denim vest outfits. It was too perfect, from the bowler hat to the sunnies. I just knew this was the outfit I had…

  • poi: all black

    Let’s talk about gettin back on my game! Yesterday I DID wear a Pinterest inspired outfit, yay me! And of course I chose an all black copycat ensemble, but it did take me out of my comfort zone! I really wanted to wear a dress cause I was sick of leggings & a beanie because…

  • poi: maroon & grey

    Let’s talk about some truth right now. Sometimes a day just doesn’t go your way as a girl & literally it’s all because of the mood you woke up in or the funk you just can’t seem to shake. That’s how my day went yesterday (Tuesday). I was just out of it, all because of…

  • poi: denim & black

    Let’s talk about my fun little challenge for the week! Starting yesterday throughout the rest of the week, I am going to be wearing outfits only from my from my “outfits i want to wear” board on Pinterest. There are all sorts of fun outfits floating around on there that I love & am inspired…

  • elephants & headbands

    Let’s talk about my most favorite animal ever, elephants! I love monkeys too, but elephants have been on my mind lately. I saw one at the zoo a few weeks back & I wanted to pet it. They’re so beautiful & big! I love em. I’ll even wear em. This last summer I saw a…

  • stripes & beanies

    Let’s talk about my most favorite things to wear lately. If you follow my Instagram account (@fash_byabb), then you know I post my outfit pictures every single day & you’ve probably noticed what my daily look has become. It’s black! All black, all the time! I don’t know why, but I just can’t stop wearing…

  • geometric & rose

    Let’s talk about my one & only New Years resolution if you must call it something. I’ve been blogging now for about a year & a half & my style in clothes & writing has changed quite a bit. I used to basically post just how to wear certain trends in an array of outfit…