Be encouraged. Be inspired. Be seen.


Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • flower punk power

    Yesterday I wanted to take a cool boots & legging pic. I wanted to so bad. Ya know, that one where the people pose on their bed & take a breathtaking (as breathtaking as feet & legs can be) & let the natural lighting from their window capture the essence of the awkward positioning. Yeah,…

  • don’t boss me tee

    Yesterday I wore this tee that I got from an online site called Kinship Goods. I snagged it up on sale before they closed their shop for a few weeks while they move warehouses. I been eyeing their tees, hoodies, & mugs (yes, mugs!) for quite a few months now. But figured sale time was…

  • poi: b&w stripes

    So I never leave my house. Like ever. Except to go to church basically & run like my two errands a week. I work from home. I like to eat at home. I spend my weekends at home. I just like being home, okay! And I have the worlds biggest panic attack every time I’m…

  • l o s t

    I’m not very good at quotes or quoting people or movies or even telling stories correctly. I don’t really have a big enough of an attention span to be able to understand a deeper meaning behind someone’s philosophical statement. That’s just not how my brain works. So I don’t live by quotes. I don’t quote…

  • i’m blue..

    It’s safe to say that I didn’t like yesterday’s outfit, like at all. Sure, it looked cute & was put together well. But I felt like a cowgirl gettin all ready to go to a square dance thing or whatever. It musta been the boots! These were my favorite things last winter but not so…

  • red & plaid skirt

    Okay, when I go shopping I tend to never buy things that are over $15. I just think that the majority of things are not worth more than that especially cause I do buy them at cheaper places. Of course I have my exceptions like on things such as shoes, jackets, or bags. But other…

  • long black dress

    Have you ever tried something on in a store & known full well that it only sorta fits you, but you bought it anyway because you loved it so much. Yeah, I do that all the time. Sometimes things are just too good to pass up & my thoughts are that I can always tweak…

  • simple fashion

    Fashion can be simple. It really can be guys. All an outfit takes to be complete is one statement piece that just makes people wish they were wearing what you got on. I’m serious. Think about it. What makes you like someone else’s outfit? It’s the one thing they’re wearing that they “pull of” that…

  • stacked jewels & being casually chic

    Okay, I’ma be honest with y’all for a sec. I really hate labeling fashion styles & senses because I don’t think women should conform themselves to one single category & let their identity come from just that. I for one don’t believe I have a “style” per say. I wear what I want, when I…

  • hello apparel & striped beanies

    If you’ve followed me for any amount of time then you know I absolutely LOVE Hello Apparel & you know that I own about a zillion of their shirts & sweaters. Yep. It’s true. They’ve got me swooning over their simple “hello” trademark design. I just like it a lot okay, & in every single…