Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • blue button up

    Lately when I go shopping I’ve actually been putting stuff back. I used to be an extremely bad impulse buyer. Shocker, I know. But lately I’ve decided that I really want to focus more on building a wardrobe & a style so my purchases have been more precise. I was at H&M a few weeks…

  • color me harem

    The in thing to do among fashion bloggers these days is to thrift key pieces into your wardrobe. But that just have never really been my thing! I have no luck finding clothes that way & it honestly sort of freaks me out a bit too. I just don’t like the concept of someone else…

  • hashtag queen

    There’s a hashtag that is used & made known by fashion bloggers alone. It’s what sums up our entire purpose. It’s witty. It’s bold. It’s what we live for. It’s the #ootd or the outfit of the day. Our daily grind. Our daily thing. An outfit every day, for the day. It makes sense. It’s…

  • denim thursday

    Yesterday was Thursday. I wore denim. Simple as that… It really was that simple. A cotton dress from Forever 21 paired with a denim vest & a pair of pink ankle flats with some round sunnies. It was a look that expressed cool girl & it was so simple to make. You just need to…

  • fashion diy

    Have you ever put something on from your closet & it just wasn’t exactly what you wanted, but oh so close? Happens to me all the time. I don’t sew, nor does anyone have the time to when running out the door. And I don’t have the kind of mind that can just forget about…

  • b&w top

    I’m a firm believer in online shopping. Most girls freak out about the thought of ordering something they have never seen in person before. And I totally get that! It can be scary sending your money off to someone or some company in hopes of receiving a piece that is somewhat close to what the…

  • haute paris

    I’m into white muscle tees lately. No idea why. But I’m just loving the look of them for summer & they’re all I can think about. This simple one I found at Ross for only 5 bucks. FIVE BUCKS. Yeah, like who passes up a deal like that? No one! Especially not me. And this…

  • too good not to

    This outfit from last Friday was just too good not to post for you all to see. It was the perfect mix of boho, summer, & grecian goddess. That’s totally been my vibe lately. I’m back into patterned maxi skirts & simple tops & never straying too far away from golden headbands. I will wear…

  • skinnies & a crop

    I deem this summer, the summer of skinnies & a great crop top tee. I could seriously wear this look a thousand different ways & still be satisfied with the outcome. I’ve never loved jeans, but I’m starting to really enjoy throwing them into the mix every now & then for something different. And I…

  • cry wolf

    I’ve wanted a wolf tee for as long as I can remember. Which means basically like a few months. Because of course I obsess over trends for about that long before I indulge & find the most perfect one! But hey, that’s okay right. So I finally found one. A wolf tee. And he’s angry…