Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • the perfect concert look

    Shirt/ Forever 21 Flannel/ Forever 21 similar Pants/ Forever 21 Booties/ Forever 21 similar Crossbody/ H&M On Sunday night I had the chance to see my favorite band, Relient k, perform in Sacramento, California. It was my fifth time seeing them because clearly I am a die hard fan & once is not enough. Every…

  • top knot good(ie)s

    Tee/ Top Knot Goods Sweater/ Forever 21 similar Hat/ The Nest Reno similar Leggings/ Target Booties/ Kohl’s Fringe Bag/ Ross similar I won this tee in a recent giveaway I entered on Instagram & instantly fell in love. I’m a sucker for graphic tees that are cute, artsy, & have a little bit of attitude.…

  • it’s a girl thing

    Dress/ H&M (similar ) Hat/ PYLO (similar) Tights/ Kohl’s Booties/ Forever 21 (similar ) Clutch/ Forever 21 Necklace/ Swallow’s Heart (similar) Denim Shirt/ Joppa (similar) Do you ever get stuck in your own thoughts? About life & beauty & what truly even matters. Yeah, me too & it’s sometimes just the worst. We compare &…

  • time’s change

    Sweater/ Forever 21 Leggings/ Burlington Coat Factory similar Blouse/ Forever 21 Booties/ Kohlms similar It’s amazing to me just how much things can change in just one year. Everything from your appearance to your style (hair & clothes) to where you’re at in life, your job, your attitude, & even your whole outlook on life.…

  • props & robbers

    Shirt/ Forever 21 (similar) Leggings/ Target Boots/ Kohl’s (similar) Beanie/ H&M Bag/ Dollar Tree Wanna know something totally bonkers? I never celebrated Halloween as a kid. Nope. I never picked out a Halloween costume. I never went trick-or-treating. Never ran from door to door singing a rhyming song & asking strangers for free candy. Wanna…

  • favorite white blouse

    Blouse/ H&M Pants/ Forever 21 Boots/ Old Navy (similar) Clutch/ Forever 21 Sunglasses/ Free People Necklace/ Swallow’s Heart Wanna know the first thing I think when I see these pictures? I should wear white more often! I mean black is almost always my go-to color. But then I see these pics & how great &…

  • some rad plaid

    Dress, Sweater, Booties/ Forever 21 Jacket/ Kohl’s Plaid is a must have for any closet & it’s best in the classic flannel shirt firm but if you can find the right piece that gives it a twist without being too over the top, then I say go for that rad plaid. This maxi dress is…

  • overalls for all

    Sweater/ Forever 21 Overalls/ Forever 21 Boots/ Forever 21 (similar) Necklace/ Swallow’s Heart Have you ever worn an outfit & wished you had documented it because it was just that good? Well this is one of those looks & I’m so glad I got some pics of it after I wore it to work one…

  • the fierce

    Romper/ H&M Tights/ Kohl’s Booties/Kohl’s Clutch/ Forever 21 Necklace/ Forever 21 I’m back on that perfect Sunday outfit game. This weekend I worked a shorter shift on Sunday & it was so nice. It left me with an entire morning to get ready to my fullest ability & build an outfit with no rush or…

  • neutral sweaters unite

    Lately I’ve been a sucker for all things neutral. Plain tees, pale colors, simple pieces. It’s become my new thing & I’m hoping I love it for quite some time. So with it being fall & sweater season I thought I’d round up a list of my favorite neutral sweaters & share them with you…