Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • lady in blue

    Sometimes you buy something that is totally not you. But the color is perfect & the shape is intriguing & the price makes you buy it so fast that you don’t give it a second thought. Buy now, question later right? Yes I say! This dress that I wore yesterday rang up at a whopping…

  • fresh love

    Do you ever feel like you wasted an outfit? Kinda like people may waste “the good surprise” on someone whose birthday party it is not. I feel like this all the time! Like I should have saved this dress for that occasion or that shirt would have gone way better with this outfit. I’m an…

  • a little bit of color love

    I love t-shirts. They’re the best thing in my wardrobe currently. They’re just so comfy & stretchy & they hold the ability to express whatever you want the world to know about you in one simple look or phrase. Think about it. That’s a lot of pressure for a single tee to live up too,…

  • crewneck pretties

    I love wearing crewneck sweatshirts & that should come as no surprise. There’s just something great about taking a comfy piece of clothing & wearing it in a fashionable way. Comfy & cute!? That’s so my jam. It’s the easiest thing to style as well! Pair it with some leggings & bootie a & you’re…

  • the scarlet shirt

    I have this shirt that I honestly just adore. It’s the perfect color, the perfect length, the perfect material, & it fits me so well. I call it the scarlet shirt. Well, because that’s what it is. Literally, a scarlet colored shirt haha. But on the real, isn’t it so hard to find a shirt…

  • beauty talks: naked 3 palette

    So if you follow me on Instagram then you know I’ve been swooning over the new Naked 3 palette for quite some time. You also know then that I just bought it earlier this week! Yay! The colors are just so pretty, I can’t think of any other way to describe them. I’ve been using…

  • dark stripes

    Sometimes I have no idea what to wear for the day. Shocker, right? And sometimes I don’t have time to just stand in my room staring at my closet for hours trying to figure it out. Sometimes I literally have to just throw things on & not question the outcome. Sometimes happened yesterday. I didn’t…

  • gold city

    I love gold. Yep, I really do. I used to hate the accent. But recently I just love it. Especially when it’s paired with black! It just looks TOO good. For my birthday I got this gold & white plaid flannel from Old Navy. I love it. I also love my New York City floral…

  • polka dot dresses

    Polka dots used to be my favorite thing to wear awhile back. I literally would wear them just about everyday & everybody knew it. I was known for the bold print & I loved it. Then my style evolved & changed & I didn’t wear them as much. Until I saw this dress at Forever…

  • boho me

    Wanna know something super crazy? I didn’t wear black yesterday. Not a single bit of it. Weird right. WHO AM I?! I’m still Abbey guys, don’t worry. But I wanted to dress different yesterday & I feel like I succeeded. I started with a blue maxi dress & threw on a mustard yellow oversized sweater.…