Tag: self worth

  • what to do when comparison creeps in

    what to do when comparison creeps in

    Recently someone reached out to me & asked for advice on what to do when you can’t stop comparing yourself to someone else in an unhealthy way. I felt very humbled that this person trusted me enough to confide in me & that she thought I would know how to beat it. Truth is, I…

  • what 2018 looked like & how i hope the new year will be

    what 2018 looked like & how i hope the new year will be

    A year is a long time. So much can happen in 12 months & it’s easy to forget. Blogging has always been a way that I have documented my life & where I’ve been since I was 19. I’ve written parts of my story on the internet for literally anyone to read, I’ve invited everyone…

  • why i never thought i’d ever do a boudoir photoshoot & images from my first one

    why i never thought i’d ever do a boudoir photoshoot & images from my first one

    I’ve been asked many times to do a boudoir photoshoot & my answer was always the same. No. No. No. I never saw the point in taking revealing pictures & said that the only time I would maybe do one was when I got married one day. I never felt that I couldn’t do one…

  • you need to love your body & surround yourself with those who will do the same

    you need to love your body & surround yourself with those who will do the same

    Swim suit season. Who else usually dreads the summer months because they just don’t like being seen in a bathing suit, or as my almost two year old niece likes to call it, a “baby soup”? Summer has always been a time in my life where I usually stay covered up in clothes despite the…

  • monday morning encouragement: sometimes things will just fall into place

    monday morning encouragement: sometimes things will just fall into place

    I wrote this blog post last week on Monday afternoon & it totally didn’t publish. I figured, why let a good thing go to waste, so here it is for today. Read it. Enjoy it. Be encouraged…   Can we pretend that it’s still the morning? Can we pretend that I am as organized in…

  • monday morning encouragement: i’m doing whole 30 (again)

    monday morning encouragement: i’m doing whole 30 (again)

    January is the time that everybody & their mother (literally, their moms) start trying to eat healthy again after the holidays. So many people make a resolution to lose weight, go to the gym, & be all around better again. But sadly, this month & the start of a new year don’t hold any more…

  • monday morning encouragement:

    monday morning encouragement:

    Self-doubt. It’s totally the elephant in the room today. At least for me it has been. It’s the reason that I’ve written & re-written what to say about six times already. It’s made me second guess every single idea I’ve thought was good. It made me hit delete, delete, delete on my all of my…

  • a letter to myself: hey you, know what you’re worth

     This post isn’t for you today. It’s for me. I need a reminder. I need to tell myself a little something. So here I go… “Hey you, know what you’re worth.” Did you hear me? Know what you’re worth. Because I think you sell yourself short all the time. You get so wrapped up in…

  • monday morning encouragement: you are still loved today

       I don’t know how your yesterday went. Whether it was great & fantastic, or it felt lonely & like you were forgotten, I want you to know one thing: you are still loved today.  Flowers smells so nice & are really colorful & pretty, but they eventually whither. Chocolate is the best invention ever,…

  • monday morning encouragement: donut be ashamed of who you are

       Today is Monday. And as you head out into your day reflecting on the weekend, I want you to know one thing: don’t be ashamed of who you are. Or ya know, in my love language, donut be ashamed of who you are. Many people will not be just like you. Which is good,…