Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • military green

    Have you ever thought of pairing the same color pieces together in the same outfit, besides the color black?!? Me neither! Yesterday I got dressed & I knew my outfit needed something else but I wasn’t sure what exactly. I had a camo long tee & leggings on & tonight I best would do. So…

  • end it movement

    Yesterday was the day that people across the country (possibly world) choice to use their voice for a people that are voiceless. Yesterday was sex trafficking awareness day. People rallied together & wore a red x on their hands to stand against the wrong that is happening all across this country. It’s such a hard…

  • black curvy sass

    Have you ever just put on an outfit, taken a look in a full length mirror, & been like dang, I should wear this every day cause my body is kickin. You know you’ve all thought this. Yesterday with my almost all monochromatic look I looked slimmer than a slim jim. Complete true story. The…

  • just rompin around

    Yesterday I was just rompin around wearing a super simple grey romper over a black & white striped tee & somehow I created a huge commotion. Ya see, yesterday I participated in the #CoastToCoastChallenge on IG where the ladies over at Coast To Coast Central teamed up with the peeps over at The Project Heal…

  • green stripes

    So I told you that my entire room is a mess, right? Well, it is because my dad is painting my room & putting in hardwood floors. So all of my clothes are just like thrown on top of each other in a spare room with mountains of shoes & scarves & jackets surrounding them.…

  • 10,000 views

    Holy bananas. Can you believe it? My blog has gotten 10,000 (& counting) views! I’m so humbled by that. I can’t believe some one or groups of someone’s would want to take a look at my outfits THAT many times. I can’t thank you all enough for the support & love I receive every day!…

  • berkeley girl

    Yesterday one of my best friends & I drove down to Hayward (right outside of San Francisco) to see out best friend play a home college basketball game! It was such a quick trip but so so good to see our third best friend! She won her game too! Yay! It was intense toward the…

  • kimono chillin

    Friday was a chill day. Just chillin in my kimono. Like one often does when wearing such a thing. Except I worked hard. My mom said that of I cleared out my whole room this weekend then my dad would paint my room while I was gone. See what she did there? Haha, so with…

  • stripes & denim

    Some days you just have super chill outfits. They’re really no big biggy. They’re nothing special really. Just a few pieces that somehow come together to look like a decent look. There’s not much to say about em. There’s not much to em really. See where I’m getting at? Me neither. Outfits should be effortless…

  • bars

    So I have this friend & her name is Micah. She’s pretty cool & supports my dreams of becoming a rapper. True story. Whenever I lay down a good rhyme she applauds me and says “bars”. She won’t ever tell me what that term means but I like to think it stands for “bad a$$…