Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • feeling kardash

    Yesterday’s outfit was kickin. I used to dress like this all the time too! A blouse, some skinnies, flats, and a slicked back hairstyle was how I jammed. I totally channeled the Kardashian style sense almost every single day about two years ago & I loved it. But then my style evolved & I grew…

  • i’m so tired

    Can we all just agree that we hate Daylight Savings? It like messes with you for a good couple of days. Not just the lack of sleep but the whole track of time as well. I was so freaked out by it being lighter later yesterday. As someone who strives & so far succeeds to…

  • flannels & maxis

    My two favorites were incorporated into my outfit yesterday: flannels & maxis. They’re just such cute trends! But who’s ever thought to combine them? Me, me, me! I love taking a flannel & wearing it as a sweater/jacket piece over a tee. But why not do the same thing with a dress? Exactly. It’s pure…

  • plaid under tee

    Sometimes when ya get dressed you just think to yourself, I must be a genius! Oh, no one else thinks this? Well I do! I’ll look at the outfit I’ve someone randomly built & just think, girl you are so clever. Yesterday when I was getting dressed I had no idea what to wear, as…

  • something old, something new

    I’m getting married! Just kidding. I’m not. I’m just over here rambling about my clothes again. And something old & something new was in the mix of yesterday’s outfit. First things first, the old. A few weeks ago I went to my favorite local vintage thrift shop & picked up this maroon square scarf. This…

  • pink lady

    I literally own one pink thing & I didn’t even buy it. It’s a tunic that my grandma have to me because she didn’t want it anymore. I’ve had it in my closet for months & didn’t know what to do with it. Pink is just not something I’m into. So yesterday I pulled it…

  • polka dots & turbans

    I’m tired. Really tired. Too tired to write a bunch. Too tired to post a bunch of pictures. All week has been like this & I’ve worked my job less this week. I don’t know why I’m feeling this way. I need some real rest & that is all I know. So sorry for the…

  • nope

    Ima be real with y’all for a bit. Yesterday’s outfit was just too good for a Tuesday. Normally if I put together something snazzy & cute I’ll save it for a Sunday which is when I see people & actually to do stuff. But I put on yesterday’s outfit & just couldn’t take it off!…

  • parachute pants

    This weekend I went shopping at H&M because they were having a sale. I bought a few trends I’d been eyeing including these parachute pants that I tried on & loved! I would have never thought that the cut of these pants would look good with my figure but they totally did! They were a…

  • vintage things

    My room is still in shambles & I hate it so much. So getting dresses yesterday was just as chaotic as the rest of the week has been. I knew I wanted to wear a headpiece & my tan leggings with some sort of black top. So after digging through so many shirts & dresses…