Welcome to Abbey Kay — a place to be filled with encouragement through real life struggles, a source to ethical fashion & trendy finds, & a guide to my life in Reno, NV.

A few things about me: I desperately want others to know they are seen, heard, & not alone. I believe you should love your body at every stage in life. I think finding a balance in everything you do is more important than striving for perfection. I will always drink black coffee & never not have black nails. I try my best to be open, honest, & real by showing up for others.

Always know that life is unpredictable, but it’s still worth experiencing every up & down it has to offer.

I’m so glad you’re here & can’t wait to connect!

  • all tied up

    I’ve always wanted to try the trend of tying up a tee right up at your waist into a knot. Sounds so simple. But sometimes tees aren’t big enough to tie. Or you can’t wear the trend with a certain bottom. But yesterday I totally did it with success! I took a faded grey muscle…

  • tribal & teal

    Sometimes I have no idea what to write in these things. Or I have a million ideas but they take me in too many different directions. Tonight’s post isn’t about the clothes or the outfit. But instead on the fact that Jesus Christ is so cool. Tonight I had the privilege of hearing one of…

  • skinny mini jeans

    I already announced this on my Instagram, but I figured I might as well say it here too. Over the weekend I tried on a pair of jeans that I had lost all hope in ever being able to wear again because they were too small of course. So instead of keeping them as a…

  • festival ready

    I had a really, really good day yesterday. I spent the entire first part of my day running errands with my oldest brother who was in town. We had a great time just joking around together, laughing, & mostly me making fun of him. The rest of the day I spent with my other siblings…

  • homie don’t you know me

    It’s been rainy days & cloudy weather around here lately. And I was so bummed when it wouldn’t stop pouring yesterday because I had no idea how I was going to capture my outfit. Silly thing to fret about I know, but I loved what I wore & didn’t want ya to miss it. And…

  • diamond edge

    I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again, I love simple outfits! Just two or three piece looks that steal the show wherever you go are my jam. And each piece from yesterday’s outfit definitely did just that. I paired my leather leggings with a black & white diamond muscle tee & my two…

  • my whole 30 journey

    A lot of my Instagram followers, friends, & family have been really interested in this entire Whole 30 thing that I have been doing. Their first question is what is it. Then they ask why I’m doing it. If they make it through both those answers they usually get all wide eyes & amazed that…

  • natural

    I did something nuts yesterday, nuts for me at least. I didn’t wear any make-up, well almost. I’m the kind of girl who honestly wears make-up every single day because I like too & that’s just that. I seriously hardly ever let a day go by without putting it on entirely to where I feel…

  • earth day mermaid

    I’ve got two topics to quickly discuss in the blog post. One being the giveaway I’m hosting on my fashion Instagram. And the other being that I finished my Whole 30 food challenge. First off, I’m teaming up with the lovely Valery Brenan from With Love From Rigby to giveaway one of her Gatsby inspired…

  • cool guy

    I talk about this all the time. But there’s always that person that we see somewhere & we think to ourselves, man they’re just so cool! That shirt, their hair, them shades, it just makes them look cool! Well, they’re not cool. They’re just as weird & quirky as you. Or they’re so self involved…